Finding The Way
Posted on Fri, 10/21/2011 - 4:25pm | 0 comments
Spoiler Alert: If you’re planning to watch The Way, it might not be a good idea to read this post until you’ve already watched it.
When I first heard the news that a movie about the pilgrimmage to Santiago was coming to theaters this fall, I was stoked! It got me on a hunt to finding The Way and when and where it was to be released. After weeks of waiting and searching, I finally had the opportunity to watch The Way last Sunday with wifey. If you’ve read my bio, then you can clearly understand how significant this movie was for me and how enthusiastic I was to go watch it. The entire film, written by Emilio Estevez and starred his father Martin Sheen, highlights the infamous and historical pilgrimage known as “El Camino de Santiago” (translated as The Way of St. James) which is the walk of a pilgrim towards the Catholic Cathedral of Santiago de Compostela in Spain. It is believed that the cathedral holds the burial site of the Apostle St. James, one of Jesus’ Twelve disciples. Therefore, the path to Santiago de Compostela is a pilgrim’s walk of personal and spiritual reflection that ultimately leads to a conversion of mind and heart; and that conversion is uniquely defined by each and every pilgrim that embarks on the path.
In a nutshell, main character Tom Avery (Sheen) was an American doctor who unexpectedly received a call from an official in France with news that his estranged son (Estevez) was caught in a storm and accidentally killed while walking the Camino de Santiago. Tom immediately flies to France to collect the remains of his son. While there at St. Jean Pied de Port, France, he learns about the significance of the Camino de Santiago and why so many people aspire to embark on this journey. Knowing how rebelliously adventurous his son was, Tom was determined to embark the Camino de Santiago, a distance of 800 kilometers, and complete the pilgrimage to fulfill his son’s dream despite his old age and inexperience as a traveler. Little did Tom know that his journey on The Way of St. James became much more than fulfilling a favor to his son. It also became a journey of his own, a journey with his son, a journey along other pilgrims which he befriended, and ultimately, a journey that led to a conversion of mind and heart.
The film was truly an inspirational story of life, family, friendship and the meaning of life in all its wonders and complications. Estevez provided a great balance between capturing the beauty and richness of the Catholic faith and the many different realities of where people are at spiritually that even a non-Christian could watch and enjoy the movie. Even Sheen’s character was a fallen away Catholic, especially after the death of his wife which led to the estrangement of his son as well as everything else that brought him joy and happiness. It’s a wonderful tale of redemption that we all can relate to and appreciate.
In terms of my overall rating, I would give it four out of five stars. I loved the movie and would recommend everyone to go check it out. Two reasons why I didn’t give it a full five-star: One, I felt more could’ve been done with the story line to provide a deeper insight into the characters, especially the relationship between the father and son. Further development in this area would’ve opened the movie on a stronger note and more convincingly invited us along the journey with the character. Secondly, I felt the conclusion was somewhat weak. The closure wasn’t as clear-cut and strong for me as I’d like it to be (including my wife). She and I had a long discussion about potential alternative endings that would’ve just been perfect. But then again, who are we to say? Regardless of these two critiques, it was still a great film and worth a movie night at the big screens.
On a more personal note, watching The Way was absolutely a nostalgic experience! I relived wonderful memories of my walk on the Camino de Santiago that were true defining moments in my life. The shells, the arrow marks along the path, the walking stick, the scenic views, the pilgrims, and ultimately, the Cathedral of Santiago – all brought back intense emotions. Every time a scene elicited such sentiments, I would turn to my wife with excitement and amazement like a little child full of wonder and awe. Can you blame me? Who would’ve ever thought that the days between August 24-26 back in 2000 would forever change my life? I know my experience was meant to be shared. Over the past eleven years I might’ve lost sight of that a little bit, but watching The Way definitely reignited my passion and purpose. I hope to bring inspiration and value to people who are willing to listen.
Buen Camino!
A Big Step Forward
Posted on Wed, 10/19/2011 - 12:27am | 0 commentsAbout a year ago, I received an unexpected email from the Diocesan Director of Youth Ministry for the Diocese of Fresno with an invitation. He said my name was mentioned as a potential speaker for their 23rd annual Diocesan Congress Confirmed in Faith, Committed to Justice to be held in the fall of 2011. He then invited me to be a presenter for one of the breakout sessions on the first day of the weekend conference. It was the first invitation I have ever received to speak at such an event. Needless to say, I was humbled, honored and totally excited for the opportunity.
This past Saturday, October 15 at the Visalia Convention Center, I presented my very first conference workshop at the 2011 Fresno Diocesan Congress. As much as I was excited, I was just as nervous! There are ministry experts and great speakers who are invited to speak at these events and who am I? I’m just a newbie! I would think to myself at times, do I really have anything of value to say and would people really take me seriously? You may be wondering what I ended up speaking about. Since my passion and focus this past year has been young adults and the Church, my topic was initially inspired by a blog article written by John Rinaldo titled Cultural vs. Engaged Catholics and I decided to expand on his thoughts and focus on Re-Engaging Our Disengaged Catholics. Young adults are becoming increasingly disconnected with their faith and the Church. We, as Church, not only need to pay attention but listen and respond.
I’ve been so immersed in young adult ministry and continue to discover new challenges we face as Church with our young and strayed-away Catholics that I’ve become a strong proponent for this particular ministry. Even though I am a newbie and I don’t necessarily have all the answers to our current concerns, I do have something to say to the people of God. And it’s not just about youth and young adults but also my passion for Jesus Christ, discipleship, prayer, Scripture, spirituality, dreams, relational ministry and most especially, our steps of faith – our faith journey. It’s one of those mysterious ways in which God calls his servants. You see, I grew up with a severe case of Glossophobia (fear of public speaking). But through my conversion as a leader in youth ministry thirteen years ago, God graced me with the gift and courage to speak His message when it needed to be spoken. What once was a task that brought me nightmares has become a passionate dream and purpose in my life.
The past thirteen years of ministry I’ve had many opportunities to speak to different groups and audiences. But this particular Saturday at Visalia Convention Center was totally something else. Speaking at a diocesan faith formation conference for the first time was definitely a big step forward for me! In a small but powerful way, the purpose and dream God placed in my heart had become much clearer to me when I saw this:

I was reminded that God does not choose the qualified. He qualifies the chosen. I’m just a messenger sent on a mission. I hope and pray that I can glorify God in all that I say and do. And so the journey continues…
Buen Camino!
Welcome!
Posted on Sat, 10/15/2011 - 11:34am | 0 comments
Welcome to the newly designed SteveDo.org! I will use this space to share information on speaking engagements, plus thoughts and reflections on faith, ministry, leadership and life. Over the next couple of weeks, we'll be adding photo albums of events and videos of presentations for your viewing pleasure. Until then, check out the expanded About section, with an added summary of my Santiago Walk experience--even ten years later, the memory still illicits such a powerful reaction in me! I felt it was important to share it on this website since that journey so long ago still guides me along the journey I travel today.
Speaking of that walk, have you all heard of The Way movie? I already bought my ticket for this Sunday--I'm so excited! I'll be sure to post my review after I see it. Stay tuned...
Lastly, I am about to head out to a speaking gig at the 23rd Annual Diocesan Congress for the Diocese of Fresno. I'll be speaking on Re-engaging our Disengaged Catholics. Please pray for me and for the participants, that the Spirit works in our hearts and minds, that we may all come away with new ideas about how to be more effective in our ministry to the disengaged.
Buen Camino!